Not a post-Valentine's Day Post

In as much as I want to believe that being busy is not an excuse for not writing, I just simply can't.

Real work has happened since January 31, hence, my lack of my post. I get home late, and weekends are not meant for doing things that require computers and thinking. 

Oh well, today is something else. After three weeks of actual work, I finally found time to start a new post. This is not going to be anything special; it's just whatever I could think of given this brief period of blogging.

The weeks that passed came so fast, and the days that came with it looked like any other day; there was nothing spectacular to talk about. However, one early Valentine's Day morning, I saw  this. I took my phone out and snapped this photo:

I was starting to come up with stories on this particular picture.

A girl gets a surprise as she wakes up in a room full of red and white balloons from her boyfriend. She cries as her boyfriend emerges from the pile of balloons and embraces her. The boy unlocks her arms and pulls a small box of chocolates from his pocket. 

It's a newly widowed woman's birthday, her first birthday without her husband of 41 years. Her two boys thought of surprising her. She's still in mourning. Maybe a surprise like what their dad did would cheer her up.

Nah, for all we know, those two guys on a bike would just want to pop some balloons.

Painting, commuting, shooting, and other -ing endings

I tried painting over the weekend.

I finally had the courage to take it up, something I had been wanting to do for the longest time. I don't have any formal training, so Youtube was the best resource I had.  I did my first painting Sunday afternoon, 29th of January, and  finished my second painting at thirty past twelve midnight of the next day. I was so engrossed that I lost track of time. I was forgetting that I had to be up for work in a few hours.

A good first try, I think.

 I was beaming with pride for my creations. They are not exactly museum quality, but they deserve a place in my small abode. I have yet to learn how to blend colors and many other things. The flower painting is too dark while the mountain scenery is too light. Nevertheless, I am happy with my work. I shouldn't be too hard on myself. Besides, it's my first attempt to use oil.

With only few hours of sleep and with fingers smudged with paint, I was off to work by seven, to make it in time for the flag raising ceremony that Monday morning. I started panicking when vehicles were moving at a snail-paced along MIA road. I don't ever recall experiencing heavy traffic in this area even on a Monday morning. I surmised something was wrong, an accident maybe, ahead of us.

After a thirty-minute agony, I survived the heavy traffic, arriving at the office just in nick of time. I learned there was a film shooting in Buendia. A bus was made to appear to be falling off the flyover. "Ah, Bourne Legacy!" The mention of the film's title made everyone forgive the inconvenience it brought to all motorists and commuters. Who wouldn't be? The movie will certainly help promote the country, and we are too happy to have Hollywood stars come over here.

 Few minutes after I arrived, I saw the traffic along Roxas Boulevard the shooting created. While one side (south-bound) of the street had few cars, the other appeared like an extension of the parking lot to its right.

Tuesday morning, I learned from the morning show, Unang Hirit that the Buendia flyover shooting was for GMA 7's new soap. Upon hearing the news, I told myself, "ok" and hoped not to experience the same inconvenience again.

Do I or don't I?

Ortigas

For a tourism website that we were working on, I was tasked to write a do's and dont's article for foreign travelers to the Philippines. I knew a few things, but I still had to research on the topic. As a result of my research, I ended up writing this:

Do’s and Dont’s in the Philippines

Don’t be surprised to see kids and adults alike waving at you as your taxi makes it way to the welcoming streets of the Philippines. It’s really the nature of the Filipinos to extend their warmth to any guest of their country. This hospitality or generosity towards visitors is the Filipinos’ most endearing trait, making the Philippines one of the most tourist-friendly countries in the world.

Like any other country, the Philippines has its share of peculiarities that reflect its unique culture and traditions. Knowing these customs and traditions will get any visitor to know more of the Filipinos and their country. In addition,  any visitor to the country could very  well benefit from these reminders to make their stay more enjoyable and memorable. 

INSIDE FILIPINO HOMES

Expect to be invited to the homes of Filipinos. They will offer you everything and anything on their dining table. They would appreciate if you partake of the food offered.  If you happen to show up during meal time, an extra chair will be made available to you. In short, do eat when you’re offered food. Don’t offend your hosts by refusing outright.

When you happen to see a group of shoes or slippers congregated outside your host’s abode,  you may be asked to leave you footwear outside also. They will offer you house slippers, or if they don’t, the house is most likely clean. 

ELSEWHERE

The Spaniards influenced how greeting is done in the Philippines. “Beso-beso” or a simple cheek to cheek contact is a way  of greeting people especially among the ladies. If it’s not done, do smile or a say ‘hi’  and expect a smile in return.

If you’re white, don’t get offended if people think you’re American. 

Do come in appropriate clothes when an occasion calls for them.  Although the Philippines is a walkable country, not all places would welcome you in your flip-flops and shorts. Churches, government institutions and some restaurants would require proper attire. Besides, if you come well dressed, Filipinos will admire you, and it’s always fun to dress up!

Your sense of humor will come in handy in the country. Do laugh when you make a mistake like mispronouncing a name or getting lost. Expect that Filipinos will share that laugh with you.

Don’t lose your temper. Gain composure and assess the situation. Filipinos will help you for as long as you don’t embarrass them in public.

Although tipping is not institutionalized as a custom, do leave something on the table.

ON THE ROAD and ON THE STREETS

Don’t give alms to the poor.  Mendicancy and giving of alms are offenses in the Philippines. If you wish to exercise your charity,  there are institutions who will gladly open their doors for you. In a related note, don’t open your car window to street kids.

Make sure your stomach can handle the street food. Don’t eat street food unless you know it’s safe for consumption.

When on the streets, don’t get offended by stares. Filipinos marvel at anything foreign. 

Don’t be too showy of your valuables and gadgets. 

Don’t be too trusting of the people you meet for the first time. It’s best to be vigilant and put your common sense to use wherever you may be.

Do use the thumbs-up sign for “OK!” The common sign of OK would mean money in the Philippines. 

Don’t use the index finger to call or point at someone.  Locals would use “Pssst!” to call someone; however, this is deemed to be a rude way of catching people’s attention. Calling someone by his or her name is still recommended.

Using proper appellations for elders shows respect. Get to know these appellations and other titles. You will be endeared to the Filipinos once they hear you say that. Do show respect to anyone regardless of their social class or age.

The article had the intention of educating  foreigners on the Filipinos' cultural intricacies, but it went on teaching me something as well. I have known all of these things all along, but still the research was much needed. I tried to analyze why I couldn't have thought of those without researching. I inferred that I don't know much about foreigners, their own culture and their perceptions of the Filipinos. What would they have done that they shouldn't be doing? Frankly, I wouldn't be able to give a complete answer. But am I worried? No. Honestly, I am more inclined to learning about my culture than learning about others'.

Writing the article showed me a view other than my own. It also made me smile to know that Filipinos are all those.

I did submit the article. My editor-colleague  edited and added additional information to the article, and, as a result, the article underwent some changes. It turned out better, I think. So is my appreciation of our culture. 

You may read the article on this site.